The Best Traditional Anniversary Gifts by Year, Because You're Going to Have a Long Life Together
Plus: modern gifts, gemstone gifts, flowers and colors, too!
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Anniversary gifts are loaded with symbolism. Not only are you celebrating your love for one another, you're also celebrating the time you've spent together and the bond you've created and maintained. Hallmark's research suggests that the idea of having traditional anniversary gifts by year — specifically the silver and gold anniversaries — originated in the Germanic region of Middle Europe in the 18th century. There, on the 25th year, the husband would give his wife a silver garland, Hallmark says; on the 50th, he'd give her a gold wreath.
The idea of giving specific gifts for certain anniversaries gained steam in Victorian England, when couples were newly marrying for love. "When the love match was first invented it was very destabilizing and traditional conservatives were horrified by the idea," Stephanie Coontz, author of Marriage, a History, told Time. "What in the world will we do to get people married and keep them married if love is the main reason? And so there began to be this emphasis on building a love and commitment."
Of course, the Victorians didn't have final say over the list of traditional gifts. Emily Post is credited with solidifying a list for major milestone anniversaries in her 1922 Etiquette: in Society, in Business, in Politics and at Home. But even then, she only included eight suggestions for presents. Later, in 1937, the American National Retail Jewelers Association came out with a "modern" list, that called for more practical and less symbolic gifts.
And gifts aren't the only ritual surrounding anniversaries: there are flowers, gemstones and colors, too. So, whether you're looking for anniversary gifts for women or gifts for men, there's a lot to keep track of. We've put together a list of all the anniversary traditions by year, so you'll never forget what to buy — just be sure to bookmark this page and revisit it every time your anniversary rolls around.
In addition, we offer some gift-giving inspiration, including some Good Housekeeping Institute-tested items, current best sellers and editors' picks. One thing's for sure: You're going to have a joyous, lifelong journey ahead, complete with many anniversaries, birthdays and holidays. It's good to keep some of these ideas in your pocket, so you're always ready for the next occasion.
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