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Gift Mom an opportunity to treat herself with these self-care gifts

Because Moms do so much for us.
/ Source: TODAY

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Mother's Day will be here before you know it which means it's time to start shopping for the most important mothers in your life. While flowers and candy gift baskets are always a great gesture, a self-care gift will give her the much-needed and much-deserved opportunity to relax and care for herself.

If you're looking for the best self-care Mother's Day gifts to give your wife, mom, grandma or mother figure and don't know where to begin, we've got you covered with items that will help relieve stress and boost their overall mood.

From essential oils to waffle weave bathrobes, these thoughtful gifts will help them carve out a little 'me time.'

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Hair Scalp Massager


Tiny but mighty, this scalp massager currently has over 88,000 ratings on Amazon. Use it to help with dry scalp or simply squeeze in a quick head massage in the shower.

Gel Eye Mask

Eye masks are an easy and affordable gift that are always welcome. We like this one because it's reusable and can be used hot or cold.

Be Stress-Free and Color Coloring Book

Coloring books are for adults, too! This detailed one by Chartwell Books will help her re-center the mind and be in the moment.

Wreck This Journal

Sometimes a journal with empty pages can be daunting. This journal gives ideas like poking holes in pages and gluing pieces of colored paper onto pages so they can let out some stress and tap into her creativity.

Aromatherapy Shower Steamer Set


These aromatherapy shower steamers are made with eucalyptus and other amazing essential oils for a calming scent that can also relieve any sinus pressure that’s built up throughout the day. Just put one on the floor of the tub while showering and it will release its scent once activated with water.

Bedsure Satin Pillowcase


If they strive to have perfect, frizz-free hair when they wake up, this bestselling satin pillowcase from Bedsure is the ultimate game-changer.

Full Range of Embroidery Starter Kit


This stress-relieving activity is great to help them calm down after a long day. This embroidery kit is for beginners and includes everything they will need to create a pretty plant scene.

Asutra Aromatherapy Mist

This mist was made with moods in mind. They’ll experience an immediate boost of relief once they spray the aloe vera-based mist over the bed, pillow or clothes.

Stress Relief and Self Care Cards

Let’s be honest: Stress relief and self-care can often be more stressful than anything else if you don’t know where to start or what to do. For the person who needs a little help getting a routine going, these cards will do the thinking for them. This 52-card deck contains prompts for meditation, mindfulness, anxiety relief and more.

Essential Oil Diffuser

Essential oils can help bring a sense of calm to a room after a chaotic day. She can use her favorite oils to transform home into a sanctuary.

Patchology FlashPatch Rejuvenating 5-Minute Eye Gels


If they don't have time to squeeze in a full eight hours of sleep, they'll never look tired with these fast-acting eye masks. Loaded with caffeine and hydrolyzed collagen, these patches will give them a well-rested look while fighting puffiness and dryness.

100 Things to Do For Your Wellbeing


Make self-care easier with this poster, which they can use by scratching and following these prompts such as 'take yourself on a date' and 'visit a museum or gallery.' Perfect for the mom who needs a little daily reminder to take care of herself.

Purely Northwest Tea Tree Oil Foot & Nail Soak

With a glowing rating near five stars from over 15,000 Amazon shoppers, this soothing foot soak is a refreshing note to end any day.

Habit Tracker Calendar


Help them keep track of habits by jotting down goals they hope to reach each day, week or month with this calendar.

Dammit Doll


When the day is done and the stress of work and home are just too much, she can reach for the Dammit Doll. The handmade doll can be thrown, smashed, tossed and stomped on to get out any built-up rage.

Esarora Ice Roller


Ice rollers are a great gift since they relieve tension, reduce puffiness and relieve pain from minor injuries. We love this after a hard workout for instant cooling or for some migraine relief.

The Work Wellness Deck

Annoying co-workers, stressful deadlines and the pressures of working a strenuous job all make the work wellness deck a perfect gift. With cards that make users pause to reflect, or distract them from the mundane or hectic nature of their job, gift this deck to the mom in your life who needs a mini vacation during lunch.

Natural Life Happy Box

With a variety of gifts, including a headband, catch-all dish, coaster, rearview mirror charm and more, this “happy box” will make sure they’re just that.

Muscle Rub


If tight muscles are an issue, then consider giving this soothing muscle rub a try. It's made with a variety of organic oils, including peppermint, basil, cinnamon, citronella, ginger, grapefruit, juniper, lemongrass and spearmint. For those days when they're on-the-go, this'll give muscles the much-needed break they deserve.

ProsourceFit Acupressure Mat and Pillow Set

Acupuncture and pressure are combined with this mat and pillow set. While no real needles penetrate the skin, the mat does find pressure points to help relieve tight muscles and stress. After a short session, it can be rolled up for easy storage.

Sunny Bay Microwavable Neck Pillow

Whether their body temperature runs warm or cold, this neck pillow is sure to keep them comfortable while relaxing at home. The best part is the heat lasts for up to 30 cozy minutes.

Kitsch The Lavender Weighted Scented Eye Mask


Let the day fade away as they rest with this lavender eye pillow. The inside is filled with dried lavender seed and the weight is meant to help ease tension headaches and promote deeper sleep, according to the brand.

PureWine Silver and Gold Wand

This wand helps to purify wine by filtering out sulfites and histamines, which are associated with triggering some wine sensitivities. After swizzling the wand around in the glass, they can pop the top off of the wand and place it on the glass as a charm.

Old Navy "Self Care" Drop-Shoulder Crop Sweatshirt

Because she'll need a reminder that "self care" should always be a priority. Opt for her usual size to achieve the cropped fit or size up for a slightly oversized look she can lounge in.

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Custom Embroidered Robe

They’ll feel instantly relaxed in this comfy embroidered robe. Made from a lightweight material, it’s perfect for year-round comfort. Plus, you can add a personal touch with a monogram.

The Five Minute Journal

Encourage them to reflect on aspirations and goals with this popular five-minute journal. Each day, they can plan out their intentions and remind themselves of their truths. Then at the end of the day, they can reflect on everything that happened and write down the best parts.

Candier Who Run The World? Moms Candle

Moms do, duh. Remind her that she's the superhero in your life with a delicious smelling candle. She'll notice notes of champagne mimosa, mandarin, coconut, sandalwood and vanilla — yum!

The White Company Spa Restore Candle

For someone who enjoys burning candles around the house or while they read at night, the spa restore candle from The White Company is a nice option that isn’t overwhelming or too heavy. The scent is a lovely mix of geranium, neroli and eucalyptus. The brand says it has approximately 28 hours of burn time, so this one will last a while.

TheralCE Migraine Relief Cap

Help them soothe headaches with this gel hat that can live in the freezer. When they need some tension relief or an instant cool down, they can pop this on over the eyes and sit back while it all melts away.

Bamboo Bath Caddy

Unwind in the evening with this swivel bath tray. The tray suctions to the side of a tub and can move in many directions to get the best placement. Now they’ll have the perfect spot for a good book and a glass of wine.

YnM Weighted Blanket

Weighted blankets are packed with beads or pellets to provide light, evenly distributed pressure, creating a comforting feeling. Sleep psychologist Dr. Lynelle Schneeberg previously said that many find weighted blankets to be relaxing, which is why we love this one for stress-relief purposes.

Well People Plant Power Skincare Starter Mini Set

For the mom who's big on traveling or is looking to switch up her routine, this mini skin care kit is the perfect opportunity to gift her something she can test no matter where she is. According to the brand, the formulas are plant-based with ingredients like Niacinamide, Snow Mushroom, Organic Broccoli Seed Oil, and Hyaluronic Acid.

Touchland Hydrating Hand Sanitizer

Help them remain their best self with these portable hand sanitizers. The sanitizers in this three-pack are easy to pack and whip out after riding the subway, before eating or just when they want hands to be clean.

The Original Buddha Board Art Set

Let creativity flow with this Buddha Board. The art set comes with a brush, stand and water painting board. All they need is a bit of water to let out stress and create something beautiful. As the water dries, it will disappear and allow them to draw something new.

Your Feelings Are Valid Crew Neck

Gift this to anyone who wears their heart on their sleeve to serve as a reminder that feelings are valid, even if they are a bit complicated at times.

Therabox Store Self Care Subscription Box Kit

This is a gift that keeps on giving! According to the brand, each kit is filled with therapist-curated self-care items that promise to renew and relax the mind and body. You'll find everything from candles to lotions, but the theme changes each month, so she'll be surprised each time she opens the package.

Whispering Willow Lavender Neck Wrap


The scent of lavender is one of the most calming in the world. Relieve neck tension or just indulge in a few moments of zen with this lavender neck wrap. The wrap is meant to be used hot after spraying lightly with water and heating in the microwave.

Weleda Mama and Baby Essentials 3-Piece Set

New moms will appreciate the clean formula inside this three-piece kit, which Weleda suggests is safe enough for both momma and her baby. You'll find the brand's best-selling Skin Food moisturizing cream, a gentle 2-1 shampoo and body wash, plus a calendula body lotion in the kit.

The Sill Succulent Trio


Having live plants like succulent around the house is perfect for the busy mom because they require little-to-no maintenance.

Pantuss Ballerina-Style House Slippers

Slippers are always a nice gift, especially for the work-at-home champion who likely keeps a pair under the desk. This option from Pantuss is filled with lavender and flax seed for a hint of cooling aromatherapy. The insoles can be removed and put into the microwave for a quick warm-up, and for a stronger scent.

Sonoma Lavender Spa Booties


These booties will get them off their feet and allow them to unwind and relax. The booties can be worn hot or cold and have a light lavender scent.

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Klei Soothe Self-Care Set

This rose-scented set comes with a rose and coconut bath soak and a rose and coconut body scrub. You can feel good about gifting this as it’s made without parabens, sulfates and synthetics.

Nest New York Grapefruit Reed Diffuser


Equally zesty and effervescent, citrus does a great job of raising one's energy and spirits after a stressful day.

Renpho Eye Massager

After a long day of looking at a computer, all they’ll want to do is close their eyes behind this eye massager — trust us. It has a few massage settings, along with built-in heating pads and built-in speakers, so they can listen to relaxing music while they unwind.

Celestial Silk Gift Set


Silk always feels like a luxurious gift. This set comes with a pillow case, eye mask and scrunchie that all look like beautiful black marble. Not only are each of the silk pieces pretty to look at, but they also aid in skin and hair health, making them a great two-in-one gift.

Uncommon Goods Geode Puzzle


Gift them with this geode-shaped puzzle that has puzzle pieces that are sure to leave them stumped. "Difficult? Yes. Worthy? Absolutely," said one reviewer, with another one adding that it's "satisfying" once you connect all the pieces.

Uncommon Goods Birth Month Flower Robe

Make Mother's Day even more special by honoring her birth month with this robe designed with its corresponding flower.

Tempur-Pedic Tempur-Ergo Pillow


The Tempur-Pedic Ergo pillow might sound like an investment, but it's worth it for a good night's sleep. One of our writers even said that it helped eliminate back and neck pain in just one night!

Lululemon The Mat


For the yoga-obsessed mom or the one who fell in love with at-home workouts over the last few years, gift them this Lululemon mat. Thicker than traditional yoga mats at 5mm, this one provides enough cushion on even the hardest of floors. "This one provides enough cushion for kneeling poses without being overly heavy and bulky to carry," said one reviewer.

Best relaxing gifts worth the splurge

Jenny Patinkin Rose on Rose Body Roller

When stressed, our muscles tend to tense up — this can help with that. This body roller can aid with the relaxation of tight muscles while also improving circulation in the skin.

Uncommon Good Very Big Hug Throw


For when you cannot be there to give an actual hug, gift them a very big hug thanks to this blanket. One reviewer said this blanket will serve as "a sentimental item that will be with the family for years to come."

Hyperice Core Premium Smart Meditation Trainer

The meditation trainer can help guide breathing and focus through light and vibrations and can measure stress levels as they go through a session.

Magic Linen Woodrose Waffle Blanket

Magic Linen’s waffle blanket comes in a variety of colors, including this dreamy Woodrose shade. It’s incredibly soft and can go from winter to summer because of its waffle weave and linen material. The brand operates at zero-waste and with sustainability in mind, perfect for the eco-friendly mom in your life.

Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug

Mom's usually aren't able to drink their coffee or tea while it's still warm. This temperature-controlled smart mug will finally allow them to enjoy their beverage at its peak. It comes in this chic sandstone shade, but the best feature is that she'll be able to choose a precise temperature to enjoy her drink (from 120 to 145 degrees).

Sleepletics Celliant Performance Sheet Set


The Celliant mineral-infused fabric in these sheets converts body heat into energy and returns it to your body to allow for a more restful sleep. And we all know better sleep leads to less stress during the day.

Dae Mother's Dae Bundle

For the mother who is all about her 'do, treat her to a hair care kit that should last throughout the year. Inside Dae's Mother's Day kit is a detangling and styling brush, citrus candle and their best-selling Signature Shampoo and Conditioner. Both of which are an impressive 32 ounces so she'll have a good hair day every day — and never run out of her essentials.

NuFACE Mini+ Petite Facial Toning Device

Micro-current treatments are a unique technology that stimulates the muscles in the face. The cost for these treatments are high, but you can bring a similar experience into her home. She'll receive a mini micro-current device (perfect for travel!), gel activator, creme activator and an applicator brush.

Amba Solo Plug-In Towel Warmer


Give the gift of warm bath towels and robes whenever she wants with this freestanding towel warmer. The unit takes about 15 minutes to heat up and can hold multiple towels at a time. Because this plugs into the wall, they can move it to any part of the bathroom.

Theragun Elite Handheld Percussive Massage Device


Whether she's an avid athlete or simply appreciate a good massage every now and then, they'll love this elite smart device from Theragun. It's completely personalized for her body's needs, thanks to a guided app experience that tracks their activity data and signature wellness routines. Its 16mm amplitude guarantees a deep-tissue massages, and a single charge lasts up to two hours.

How we chose

The Shop TODAY editors and writers search the internet to find the best products out there. We interview expert sources and use our own personal experiences with the product and brand to make shopping easier for our readers.